Know that this is a day that combines your dreams, and leads you into the next stage of life....it will be much more beautiful and special if you both feel you had a say, your vision was heard and carried out in some way. It is proven that men choose to have a bigger wedding...because....they have not exactly dreamed of what would happen this day, but knew that they would be surrounded by family and friends.., watching them take this HUGE step....also men feel more pressure from family (Mom) and friends ....that is OK just know that, that is proven .......It is also a huge trend that women, now, want smaller more practical weddings so that so much $ and energy is not spent on one day in the whole scheme of life, and they get to concentrate on THE REST!
You are both right in wanting what you want.....try and see it from the others point of view....and pick your battles ;-)))
MOST IMPORTANTLY - THIS IS FOR BOTH OF YOU!!!!!!!! Answer the questions to what YOU!!!!! feel, not what your parents, friends, siblings, or anyone else wants.....Just so you know they will not be offended in the long run.......and THEY are not part of YOUR marriage!!!!!!
This is an important indication of your life....how you can see it from the others point of view and work together, to both be happy with your decisions in your day...more importantly in your LIFE TOGETHER!!!
Do what feels right, do what feels good, .....but most importantly do what works for BOTH of you!!!
If you are feeling this way about your wedding planning.....CALL ME......I will give you my solutions for planning and executing your dream wedding!
Simplicity Events & Photography!!!
Kelowna, BC Canada